Lost and Found

The Diary of an Angel

The Diary of an Angel (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I was annoyed that I misplaced my 2011 diary when I needed, recently, to check out some facts, time-wise. I have just found it. What a shock I got when I saw how much time my STBX and I were spending together despite being ‘separated’ during that year. We weren’t a couple but we were still enmeshed. Seeing things in black and white reveals how our memories can play tricks on us. It’s important to have the facts; they help us to better understand our emotions in the here and now.

They say that it takes approximately one year for every five years you were together to recover from separation/divorce. That seems about right to me. 

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