Before love and romance? Before the ring? Before the first kiss?

We as humans have a hard time separating romantic feelings and physical intimacy from reality. We have a hard time thinking clearly when we are entangled in romantic relationships. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

Numerous women say that they love the feeling of being completely out of control. I think that guys could say the same thing. That’s why we are often so quick to get swept up in passionate romances. We want to be carried along.

That’s fine. But you can’t start making commitments when you’re in a passionate romance. That’s like signing an important medical document or a mortgage on your house when you’re drunk. Terrible idea.

Unless of course you know exactly what you are getting into. That’s where friendship comes into play. You keep yourself from emotionally or physically falling for someone until you…

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