Note to Self: Life Group Questions for This Week


Joseph: “A Fruitful Life” – The Road to Reconciliation – Genesis 42-44

REFLECTION: remembering the main points

The road towards reconciliation (and fullness in our relationships with others and God) involves:

  • Facing our past
  • Embracing the process

DISCUSSION: helpful questions

  • God used a crisis of famine to begin to deal with a relational famine in Joseph’s family. How has God used crises in your life?
  • Why do you think God gives three large chapters to the process of reconciliation in Joseph’s family?
  • Look closer at each of the main characters of this story and consider the following questions:
    • What did they need to face up to from their past before reconciliation could take place?
    • In what ways were events from their past still affecting them in the present?
    • What did they need to do about this?

Verses to help: Joseph (Genesis 41:51-52; 42:6-17); The Brothers (42: 21-22, 28; 43:18; 44:16); Jacob (42:1, 36- 38; 43:6, 11-14)

  • Do you agree with C.S. Lewis “to forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” Why/ why not? ERROR ALERT! “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” The quote os from Lewis B. Smedes not CS Lewis.From: ‘Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve.’
  • When facing up to guilt, grief or grudges, why is a process often necessary?
  • As Christians what enables us to deal with guilt, grief or grudges?

APPLICATION: ideas that work

Forgiveness is rooted in the sacrificial death of Christ on the Cross. Take time to listen to this song – [LEAD ME TO THE CROSS – Hillsongs} writing down on a piece of card all that God has done for you at the Cross. Let that kindle a desire for a life of forgiveness.

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